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Getting sappy: A very special day!

03 Friday Oct 2014

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365 days ago, almost to the minute, I found myself walking into a Smitty’s restaurant in Westmount mall in Edmonton, Alberta, Canada with my guide dog, Jenny.  My heart was pounding and I remember steadying my breathing as not to give away my nervousness.  We got to the Smitty’s, and I sat down at a table with my husband and two other people…

 

This sounds innocuous, this walking into a restaurant with your guide dog to meet family and friends for breakfast… but it was graduation day!  On October 3, 2013, a BC/Alberta Guide Dogs trainer did one last supervised walk several hundred yards behind me, and, after terrific coffee and a yummy breakfast, Jenny’s harness was officially put in my hand for unsupervised guiding!

 

This all came on the heels of the most exhausting four weeks of my life.  I had quit my job the previous December, and it took me five long months to find employment at a call centre for a chain of pizza restaurants.  Most days after training with Jenny, we went straight to work, where Jenny conked out on a bed under my desk, and I used my cane while she heeled at my left side, wearing her stylish blue “In Training” jacket.  I learned how Jenny moves when she is happy, focused, distracted, had to use the bathroom, and wanted to get my attention; she learned how I wanted her to pace herself, give me clearance around objects beside or above me, and what behaviors were permissible and which were not.  We had good days – like the day of our first busy street-crossing when she pulled me out of the path of an oncoming bus – and bad days – like the first time she took the LRT and whined and shook the whole trip and tried to bolt off the train at every stop – and everything in between.  Even when she was off-duty and I was using my cane, she would still find me doors to the 7-Eleven or bus stop poles, sit quietly on the bus, and behaved herself impeccably while I was at work.  The last day of training ended at 2:30PM, and I remember being so drained that I sprawled out on the couch at 4:00 PM, and blearily got up long enough to go to the bathroom and climb the stairs to my bedroom where I slept until 5:00 the next morning.

 

It was an amazing rush, that morning of October 3, 2013.  It had signified that I had done it – I had survived the rigeur of training with a new young dog, and I had many of the tools I would need over the next 8 years.  It was also nerve-wracking; I couldn’t sit down with our trainer every morning and tell her the good, the bad and the ugly of the previous day.  I couldn’t always ask why Jenny did XYZ; I was, more or less, completely on my own..  I remember picking up that harness on October 3, 2013, and having no idea what to expect, not really.  I was full of knowledge from training, confidence in my dog, and thrilled for the journey to come.

 

The previous 365 days have not all come up roses.  I have made big mistakes; Jenny has made big mistakes.  Thankfully we have more good days than bad lately; I have been both encouraged by and encouraging to others who are in the complicated and wonderful trenches of guide dog travel.  Even on a bad day (like, er, yesterday) I would not trade the past year for anything.  I have been stretched, stressed, and blown away by the complicated canine that is Jenny.  She has nailed complicated tasks and completely flubbed basic ones; kept calm in an endless parking lot when we were unintentionally lost, but once got us lost in our own neighborhood; laid calmly for hours on her bed while I’m working and yet been unable to stay still while I am working out at the gym for an hour.

 

Unbeknownst to me, October 3, 2013 was just the beginning of a journey; it’s been well worth the work, the tears, and the moments of wonder.  As of this moment, Jenny is no longer a rookie guide dog!

 

Here’s to you, Jenny Pen, and to many more October 3s!

When compliments are Insults

24 Wednesday Sep 2014

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“What a shame, you’re so pretty!”

Thus begins this article by the Huffington Post, bringing awareness to a social media campaign called the Chatterbox Challenge.  The aim of the challenge is to use the hashtags #ChatterboxChallenge and #heardwhilstdisabled to break the seemingly public yet unacknowledged silence and give voice to the hurtful comments that are leveled at people with disabilities, as well as raise funds for several Australian disability-centric charities.

 

I myself added a couple of tweets with the ChatterboxChallenge hashtag, figuring I could put into words things that I hear all the time as a blind woman.  I didn’t think anything more about it – much less considered writing a blog post about it – until two fairly well-known personalities got into hot water for heartless comments aimed at two people who just happen to be in wheelchairs.

 

Ten days ago, social media was abuzz when Kanye West called out two fans who did not stand like the rest of the crowd during one of his songs at a concert in Australia.  One of them waved a prosthetic limb in the air to show security (yes, security) that they were unable to do so, and the other was in a wheelchair.  The reviews of a follow-up concert indicated that Kanye changed his schtick to something like “If you are able, I want everyone to stand.”  Whatever one thinks about Kanye’s music, there is no reason for pressure to be exerted by a performer to all but force anyone for any reason to do something they are not willing or able to do.

 

Then yesterday I saw this tweet:

 

<blockquote class=”twitter-tweet” lang=”en”><p>Nothing sadder than a hot person in a wheelchair.</p>&mdash; Ken Jennings (@KenJennings) <a href=”https://twitter.com/KenJennings/status/514125105426071553″>September 22, 2014</a></blockquote>
<script async src=”//platform.twitter.com/widgets.js” charset=”utf-8″></script>Ken

 

Jennings is quite possibly best known as the man who won 74 rounds of “Jeopardy!” back in 2004.  Since then he has appeared on other game shows and written several books, along with many other pursuits.  For someone who is seemingly so intelligent, comments like this demean both the utterer and the recipient.

 

Personally, the comments along this vain are backhanded compliments and full-frontal insults.  To say that it’s too bad that an attractive person has a disability indicates the worthlessness of that person.  Sure, everyone likes to be told they’re attractive, but to throw the disability into the equation removes any compliment that was intended.  People without disabilities would feel angry and insecure if someone walked up to them and told them that it’s too bad they have blue eyes because they are truly attractive otherwise.  But you don’t hear that happen, at least not publicly; instead, we with disabilities seem to be open season for insensitive comments that no one else would be expected to tolerate:

 

Ironically, it’s issues of employment and family life (and the issues that surround them) that seem to draw the most insults.  I have posted before a brief synopsis of my employment journey, so I will not belabor the point beyond saying that it is incredibly demoralizing to be told that we have the smarts, skills and education, but… well, sorry!  We’re just meant to be inspirational for living our lives the way other people expect to see as a “disabled” life.  As for families?  medical “professionals”, social workers, and even families act surprised and shocked that a person with a disability wishes to get married or have children.  Someone I follow on Twitter posted that a former friend told his wife that she shouldn’t have babies with him because he’s blind.  In a worst case scenario, parents with disabilities seem to be at increased risk to have the children they do have taken away from them because of the perception that they are unable to take care of themselves, much less the most vulnerable of our society.

 

I have no problem answering honest questions about how I do things – cook, know where things are around my house, match my clothes – for the simple reason that people question what they don’t know.  Heck, I’m not above asking a few questions myself.  Last year I worked with a woman who used a manual wheelchair, and I had this crazy question for her.  I was a bit embarrassed, but I asked her what she did with all the cupboards above her apartment’s kitchen counters.  I know it sounds silly, but I honestly just didn’t know.  She laughed and told me she crammed everything in the lower-level cabinets and put things she didn’t use often into the upper cabinets with the help of family and friends.  This is the difference between asking questions and making patronizing comments that demean.  Here’s an idea: if you don’t want someone saying such a comment about you, keep your mouth shut and your hands off the keyboard.

I don’t want to be blind today

18 Thursday Sep 2014

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A friend on twitter posted a link to this blog today.  While for the most part, I do not like to complain about being blind, sometimes it is frustrating, and other times I just want to stand in an open parking lot and scream to high heaven and wonder why I am this way – not so much because I can’t emotionally handle blindness, but I can’t emotionally handle others’ perceptions of me being blind.

 

Thankfully, I have many sighted friends who can see beyond blindness, and blind friends I can call on days when I really and truly hate it.

 

 

I Don’t Want to Be Blind Today.

Did you hear that?

18 Thursday Sep 2014

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One of the most common comments or questions I get is whether or not my hearing is more “in tune” than those who can see.  While science does indicate that the brain does compensate for lack of sight, I personally believe I hear as well as I do because I am more used to using my ears to hear the world around me.

 

The one main downside to this, as opposed to being able to see, is that there are only a handful of things that can obstruct one’s vision, but many many things that can change what one hears and how one relates to the world.

 

SNOW

Alberta (particularly southern Alberta) experienced snow in September last week.  Thankfully, the snow didn’t stick here, so I was in good shape to travel.  But after a big dump of snow like that, it makes travel much more challenging (ever hear of the saying “blind man’s fog”?)  It is very easy to get yourself turned around when there’s 3 inches of snow on the ground, unshoveled, and snow keeps flying; thankfully my guide dog is an old pro at navigating through such a quiet, occasionally slushy mess.  My friend Meagan wrote a very descriptive blog post that describes the challenges of navigating the snow; I will not belabor it.

 

RAIN

I grew up near Vancouver, affectionately dubbed the “wet coast”, so you’d think I would be completely familiar with changing my spacial relation when we get a big rainfall or a bunch of puddles on the roads.  Nope!  More than once I have waited more than one light-change cycle because cars driving through puddles sound like they might be in the turning lanes.  This isn’t a problem once that rain as stopped, but I don’t like the rain, refuse to carry an umbrella, and have a dog that hates to get rained on so much that I bought her a rain poncho; if it’s raining hard outside at the immediate moment, I am unable to multitask or think much about anything beyond putting one foot in front of the other and hope I don’t get splashed by vehicles speeding through the puddles.

 

HEAD COLDS

Thankfully for me, this is quite rare, but I am currently recovering from a pretty intense head cold.  Just before the worst of it hit, I came across a situation that I didn’t expect.  My ears were slightly plugged, and my nose was stuffed up beyond belief.  I took Jenny for a walk around the block, and at one point she slowed down.  Usually when she does this it means she’s found something yummy on the ground that she’s debating about picking up.  I waved her forward, and she took a right-hand turn nearly at a run.  For about two seconds, I thought “What in the world are you doing?”  And then I heard the car zooming past my left shoulder.  If we’d gone forward, we would have crossed a busy street with no crosswalk against the light into traffic.  Yikes!  I’ve since become much more cautious when I have a head cold.

 

CROWDS

Crowded buildings have a sound all their own.  Get a hundred people together in a room, particularly one with echo, and it’s anyone’s guess where anyone or anything is!  Even if it’s a familiar place, like a mall, sounds of laughter, footsteps, and screaming children bouncing off walls can make it a veritable “maze of mirrors” for the ears.

 

These are just a few things that continually change the dynamic of my auditory world.  We are more used to interpreting our world through sound, largely through necessity rather than desire, but it all does work more often than not.  We are continually forced to adapt, and for the most part, at least to me, it’s second nature.  Thankfully, today is sunny, my cold is nearly gone, and I am not going to be trapped in a crowded echo chamber anytime soon.

Employment: Perception and reality

10 Wednesday Sep 2014

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My wonderful friend Meagan has a terrific way of putting things into words as to be classy, confident, and even humorous as the situation calls for it.  Unfortunately, she recently ran in to a situation that could have nearly changed the course of her college degree and, ultimately, her career path.  Luckily for her, she was able to work around it, but the whole situation was based on one professor’s perception of course materials and Meagan’s ability to complete the coursework only in the manner in which it was being taught.

 

Sadly, this situation is far from unique.  After 30+ years as a blind person on this planet, I would like to think that I am used to having to educate the public on etiquette, access concerns, manners, and simply acting around me as they would anybody else.  Unfortunately, in areas of employment and education, there are still many obstacles to overcome.  Blind people have made leaps and bounds in the professional world, leaving their mark as lawyers, researchers, athletes, translators, business owners, and many others; yet a vast number of us are under- or unemployed.

 

The year I graduated from high school, I decided to take a one-year college certificate program.  I had even visited the program before applying, and the computer program in use at the time was completely accessible with JAWS, the screen reader software I used in order to use a computer.  One component of the class was a 2-week practicum placement in April.  A month before class started in September, I got a letter from the program coordinator, signed by the Disability Services office, stating (paraphrasing) that since I was blind and unlikely to find employment in this field of work, I would have to find my practicum placement before beginning classes in September.  This was a qualification for me only – my classmates were scrambling in February to find theirs – but lucky for me, my mother had contacts in the field.  I could have fought it, yelled and screamed and made a big stink, but instead we sent in eight letters from organizations across Alberta, BC, and the USA stating that they would be willing to accept me as a practicum student in April.  I was ultimately able to take the class and completed my practicum by doing actual work, rather than just sitting there and job-shadowing like my classmates.

 

Unfortunately, the disability services coordinator was right.  I applied for any local job I could get in that field, and as soon as it came out that I was blind, the door would just slam in my face.  It didn’t matter that I had gone through rigorous training and had the skills and aptitude for the job; it only mattered that I didn’t have two working eyeballs and needed a piece of software to be loaded on to their computers for access.  This all came to a head when I applied to a federal agency for a job across the country and requested permission to do the pre-employment testing locally.  This agency basically said that because I was blind, there was no way I could perform the duties of the position; one of their many reasons – some legitimate though not insurmountable concerns – was because I couldn’t read body language of coworkers to know that something was going on in an emergency situation (don’t get me started on my opinions on that).  I let it go, moved to Alberta, and tried again for the same job in Edmonton.  They called me in for testing, and I was told that because I was blind, they were sorry, they couldn’t possibly hire me for this job.

  My friends and family told me that I had a legitimate Human Rights complaint, but I was 20 years old and simply wanted to work, period.  I’d hit that point where I didn’t care what kind of work I did so long as I got my foot in the door somewhere and gained the self-respect of working for my pay check.  Looking back, I think perhaps I could and should have pursued it, but I still question the wisdom of taking on a federal government agency.

 

Fast forward several years, and I was once again back on the job market.  I had been steadily employed for more than seven years in a variety of jobs (the most recent of which had been for five years), and I was sending out resumes as fast as I could.  In this province, we have a shortage of workers; I would say that my callbacks to resumes was about 50% (incredibly high).  Over more than 50 interviews later – some good, some ok, and some terrible – I was still unemployed.  There was the security company that said that I couldn’t possibly be fast enough on a computer to respond to an urgent situation, and no amount of explanation or even demonstration would change her mind.  I had one positive interview with a company that was super excited to go paperless and was even willing to train me in basic accounting, but ended up hiring someone with accounting experience (I do NOT fault them here, as they stated up front that they were backlogged three months).  One company all but told me I could do the job, they would seriously consider my application, and then spent two weeks dodging my follow-up phone calls and then leaving a curt message on my voicemail stating that they had hired someone else…  All of this, and many shades in between.  Thankfully, after five months of unemployment, I wound up at an unglamorous call centre for a pizza place who treated me well and enabled me to train with my guide dog and still remain employed by changing my hours around training.  Once I got bored of that job, I sent out one single resume, figuring that I could be picky about where I applied… and after a 1.5-hour-long interview, I am now employed where I am now.  I work terrific hours, love my job, and my coworkers are fantastic.  My boss went to school with someone who is visually impaired, so he at the very least had some idea of the capabilities of someone who cannot see.  If something isn’t accessible, we brainstorm ways to make it so, or my boss changes the project to something that is accessible.  I am truly blessed indeed.

 

Sadly, many blind people are not employed as I am – happily, or at all – largely due to lack of experience, due to the perception that we cannot do certain activities (use a computer, keep workspaces tidy, proofread reports).  it is often customary for the blind job applicant to prove they have the skills before being hired – something that is rarely if ever required of a sighted job applicant.  We can dress ourselves up, have the perfect resume, nail the interview with confidence, class and grace… and yet…

 

I don’t have any easy answers.  Someone, somewhere, has to be brave enough to take a chance.  Many blind people spend years of schooling and thousands of dollars on education and still cannot get a job for which they are qualified.  While I know this is not unique to the visually impaired, statistics show that we are critically under-employed or unemployed (anywhere from 60-75% unemployed, many not even considered as part of the labor force).  We can push and shove and try and legislate, but the truth still remains that if there is a sighted job applicant in the running alongside a visually impaired one, there doesn’t have to be a good reason that the blind applicant does not get that job.

 

Where do we go from here?  I think it’s up to us to be productive members of society at any cost.  Live a well-rounded life with friends, family, pets, activities, volunteer work, hobbies, etc.  I cannot tell you how many people – sighted and blind – don’t have any real-world interests outside of the virtual worlds of computers and cell phones.  This can only serve to hurt us, and perpetuate the idea that blind people are just too different to fit in.  While some of us like to think that how we portray ourselves doesn’t matter, it definitely does.  If one comes across as ungroomed, socially awkward, and having very few interests and goals, does that not perpetuate the very perception we are trying to overcome?

Getting girlie: on Fashion and other things

04 Thursday Sep 2014

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Anyone who knows me will tell you that I am by no means super-girlie. Don’t get me wrong, I like looking nice with coordinated clothes, but I have no use for makeup and brand names by themselves generally annoy me (with the exception of sneakers).

Does this have to do with my blindness? I don’t know. I know many visually impaired women who love nothing better than to spend a day at the mall running around different clothing stores and trying out makeup. What I have noticed is that most of them have considerably more vision than me. Many sighted friends and relatives have told me that if I could just see how makeup can enhance my appearance, then I would probably enjoy fashion and makeup for their own sakes. Whether this makes a difference, or if this is simply a quirk of my
personality, I doubt I’ll ever know.

I do enjoy the occasional trip to the mall, browsing, what have you, but since my eyes don’t catch the displays in the stores, it’s a matter of feeling clothes to find what I like. It doesn’t matter how good something looks; if I hate the fabric, all bets are off. This has resulted in a wardrobe consisting of mainly neutral coloured pants/skirts with some more brightly-coloured tops. I love denim, especially stretchy denim, knit tops, cotton or stretchy shirts – anything with buttons on the cuffs – and long skirts. My shoes are almost always black or navy, if for no other reason than they go with everything.

Makeup? Yeeeeeeech! I have worn makeup several times in my life, and with the exception of some blush and lipstick, it feels really thick and cakey to me. Nothing near my eyes, thank you very much; you can have all the eyeshadow in the world.

I have spoken to several other visually impaired women over the years about this, both those who enjoy makeup and fashion and other girlie things and those who don’t. Thankfully this does not seem to be as divisive an issue as choices in technology, employment, or education in the “blind community”. If only we could all take a page out of this book and accept each others’ personal choices so easily.

Cane vs. Dog: the perception of blind travel

27 Wednesday Aug 2014

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I am not at all going to start the debate about which method of travel is best for the blind.  I can only say that a dog is better for me, but not every blind person can or should get a dog.  Not all blind people have the desire for one, are willing to put in the extra effort that guide dog travel sometimes takes, have the space and time commitment available to properly caretake the dog, or have the mobility skills to truly benefit from a dog.  I am by no means judging any of them, at all, period!

 

However, good, bad or ugly… the public does!  My friends who still use canes have received tons of impertinent questions as to why they don’t have a dog and they should get a dog (see this blog’s intro page).

 

Having traveled with a cane for 25 years, and a dog for just 1, I have noticed a marked difference in how I am treated with a dog than with a cane.  The assumption while I was a cane traveler was that I couldn’t possibly get along anywhere on my own, and if my cane hit a wall, bench, whatever, it was vitally important that a well-meaning member of the general public would just HAVE to assist the poor blind girl.  With a dog, it is much less so.  Occasionally I will tell my dog to find a seat on the bus, and someone will tell me “there’s a seat to your left,” but it rarely if ever goes beyond that (btw, this is helpful information!).

 

I remember once shopping with Meagan before I got Jenny, and to get to the mall we had to cross a parking lot to get to the mall.  One thing I used as a landmark was a low wall, which would help me orient myself through the parking lot to get to the mall.  My cane hadn’t even hit the wall – I must’ve been at least 5-10 feet away still) when this lady came out of nowhere just screaming, “WHOA! WHOA!”  If it weren’t so rude to do so I would’ve told the lady to chill out; this is sometimes how blind people navigate, but overreacting situations like that are not going to change by a comment from me.

 

That example is just one of many in my years as a cane traveler.  I had no idea how much it would truly have annoyed me until I didn’t receive it anymore.  Now, I receive many comments on my dog, kids coming up wanting to pet her, comments about other peoples’ dogs… but thank God for the most part people assume that my dog and I can get around on our own.

 

This is not to say that I have never had to ask for help because I’ve gotten turned around; this does not mean I will be a cow because someone dared to ask if they can help me…  I am simply addressing the perceived idea that guide dog travelers do not need assistance like cane travelers do.

 

I can’t remember where I saw this, but someone once described walking with a cane as having a microcosm view of the world; you “see” things like lightpoles, garbage cans, walls, doorframes, bus shelters, and other stationary objects through the tip of your cane and you use them to orient yourself.  Perhaps this is why the public thinks that we are about to bang into them, because a cane – an extension of one’s person – is about to hit the wall, bench, whatever.  With a dog, you avoid most of those things, and thus you don’t need those stationary objects to orient yourself – you feel it with your feet and with the movement of the dog.

 

I once had a conversation with InternetKing about this, and if I recall correctly, it really annoyed him, this perception.  Now that I have been on both sides of it, I can’t say I blame him.  We use what works for us.  Sometimes we will hurt ourselves (I have a HUGE scar on my forehead to testify to the number of walls/poles/doorframes I have hit, even with a cane), but walking with a cane is safer than walking without (see this article).

 

I don’t have any nice neat tidy answers for how to correct this misperception; until they invent more compact, practical and affordable object-identifying devices to avoid canes hitting poles/garbage cans/whatever, it is up to us – whether using cane or dog, to travel around the best way we know how… and smile at the occasional unnecessary freakouts after the fact.

Kitties!

23 Saturday Aug 2014

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In addition to living with a fantastic guide dog, my husband and I share our home with three kitties, who are all quite different from each other. Figured I would introduce them to you.

 

 

 Annie Meowing

 

Annie

10-year-old Domestic short-haired
Nicknames: Pretty Kitty, the Fun Police, Dr. Annie
Hobbies: cuddling (only at night), tormenting the other cats, playing with her feathered stick
Quirks: If you are reading a book and she wants your attention, she will lay on the book so you can’t read it.
Things that annoy her: Anything with more than two legs, being closed up in closets

 

 

 

Dash

Dash

6-year-old Russian blue
Nicknames: Dasher, the Kitten, Houdini
Hobbies: playing with the boy (see below), cuddling, snuggling with Jenny, lounging around, general goofiness
Quirks: She loves to get outside, thus the nickname Houdini; she has the most pitiful meow if she wants it
Things that annoy her: Being caught once she’s done her Houdini routine, and she gets annoyed if she generally wants to be moody

 

 

Boyo trying to escape

 

Wayne
5-year-old tabby
Nicknames: The Boy, Boyo, Girlie-man
Hobbies: playing, cuddling, baiting the dog
Quirks: Many people think he’s a girl because his meow is so whiny; he likes to take my husband’s desk chair if he isn’t sitting in it Things that annoy him: not much; he’s pretty chill

 

 

Dash and Wayne are best friends

Dash and Wayne are best friends

 

Dash and Wayne are best friends, and it’s not uncommon to see them snuggling or playing together.

That wraps up the menagerie!

Meet Jenny – guide dog!

22 Friday Aug 2014

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Jenny in Montana

Jenny in Montana

Just under one year ago, a little black Labrador retriever came running, barking, and snuggling into my life.  I remember the first week like it was yesterday, worrying whether we’d bond, and trying to convince her that the cats didn’t necessarily want to be friends with a little spaz bucket.  Since then, she has enhanced my life and added complicated dimensions that I never saw coming (see this blog post).  Since she goes pretty much everywhere with me, I figured I would introduce you to her.

 

Whenever I talk to someone about their guide dog, especially a new one, I ask these three questions:

1) What does your guide dog do exceptionally well?

2) What is a bad habit that drives you crazy about them?

3( What is something cute or adorable that they do that always makes you smile?

 

I ask these questions because I want new guide dog handlers to remember that the first year, though hard, does have redeeming qualities.  Their dog has good traits and weaknesses, like all people, and is neither the canine with a halo that the media likes to portray nor the little demon from hell that a bad day will make a new handler feel sometimes.  So let me answer the questions:

 

1) What is one thing Jenny does well?  Jenny can find an escalator at a hundred paces. She loves to find them, and will almost always wag her tail when she finds one.  If I tell her to find me an escalator and she takes me to the steps, I know that the escalator is not working or is blocked off.  Given a choice, she will find the escalator every time.\

She has also figured out that, in the absence of an escalator, an elevator is a happy place and a viable option to get from one floor to another.  With a cane, I always found finding stairs, elevators, and escalators a challenge; with only one or two exceptions over the past year, Jenny has nailed this, most notably going through a crowded mall food court to get to the elevator with only one brief detour to Starbucks (she has good taste).

 

2) Her bad habit that drives me crazy?  She is a scrounger!  She likes to pick up random food off the ground… I had NO clue how much food gets tossed on the ground until I got Jenny girl.  We do work on this regularly, and it is getting better, but like all things it is something to monitor.

 

3) Cute thing she does?  There are so many!  I would have to say that she loves to play. At home she’s always up to grabbing her toys or bones and showing them off.  At the offleash park, she will hoard her toys and even steal another dog’s toys!  Most people think it’s OK because she’s so darn cute when she does it.

 

A bit about guide dog etiquette here: I fully appreciate when people ask if they can pet Jenny.  I almost always say no, because for some reason I will never understand, people seem to have radar and ask this on a day when I’m pressed for time or Jenny has been super distracted.  Guide dog handlers generally do not say no because we purposefully want to be jerks; in fact, sometimes the opposite is true.  I felt like the biggest jerk in the world a few weeks ago in Dollarama when a little kid reached out to pet Jenny.  I said as kindly as I could that it was very very important that he not reach out and pet her because she has an important job to do, and that it is not a good idea to pet dogs he doesn’t know.

 

The first year with a guide dog has been both rewarding and challenging.  Jenny has allayed my worries about bonding with me; at least once a week on the bus I get a comment like “She is just so fixated on everything you do!”

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And as for the cats… Here’s a cute picture of Jenny girl and her kitty friend, Dash, sharing the kitty bed!

Welcome to Blogville

17 Sunday Aug 2014

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Since my friend Meagan told me to write a blog -apparently my life is interesting, quirky, funny, or informative enough to hold someone’s attention for longer than two seconds – I have decided to bow to the peer pressure and write!

 

For those who know me, you can skip this part; for those who don’t, strangers are friends I haven’t met yet.  I am 30 years old this year, married, and live in Edmonton, Alberta, Canada, with my husband, three cats and a guide dog named Jenny.  I work in customer relations, and have many varied interests – from baking to making music, from playing sports to reading.  My husband tells me I drink too much coffee and eat too much chocolate, and I know that on many subjects I can be like a dog with a bone – determined and persistent.  My opinions can be strong, but I love intelligent discussions that make me think.

 

I hope this blog will give you a chance to get to know me and what it can be like to be visually impaired in the 2000s – at least in my little corner of the world.  Perhaps I will talk a lot – or too much – about Jenny and the ups and downs of working a guide dog, but there are many other topics that will be covered on this blog, primarily traveling both locally and abroad.

 

Thanks for reading!

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